Somewhere along the line, we were taught that leadership meant having all the answers. To be taken seriously, you had to speak with authority, never show doubt, and definitely never say, “I don’t know.”

But here’s what I’ve learned after years of building things—from newspapers to music festivals to film careers: pretending to be the smartest person in the room is often the fastest way to stop learning.

The most powerful moments in my career didn’t come from my brilliance, they came from my willingness to ask dumb questions, to listen harder than I talked, and to be okay with not knowing.

That’s what I mean by being stupid: not ignorant, but open. Not arrogant, but honest.

“Stupid” Opens Doors Ego Slams Shut

The truth is, ego is a door closer. It walks into a room and blocks out possibility.

But the minute you let go of needing to impress people, when you stop trying to be the hero and start being a collaborator, real connection happens. Ideas flow. Walls come down. People show up with their full, messy brilliance.

I’ve had interns say something that changed an entire project’s direction, volunteers make calls no one else had the guts to, and unexpected voices speak the truth we didn’t want to hear, but desperately needed to.

If I’d been too full of myself to listen, we’d have missed all of that.

Being “stupid” enough to listen, to really listen has served me better than any resumé ever could.

Honesty Is a Creative Superpower

People love to talk about creativity as this sparkly, mystical thing. And yes, there’s magic in it, but there’s also something very raw and grounded about it, too.

The best creative work doesn’t come from ego. It comes from honesty. From being brave enough to say, “This isn’t working.” Or, “I have no idea where this is going, but let’s find out.”

Some of the best moments in SXSW’s history started with something uncertain, unpolished, or even kind of dumb-sounding. But when you give those imperfect ideas space, when you treat them with curiosity instead of judgment, sometimes they grow into something brilliant.

That only happens when ego isn’t choking the room.

People Can Feel When You’re Full of It

Let’s be real, people can feel when you’re performing leadership instead of practicing it.

They can tell when you’re protecting your image instead of participating in the work. They can sense when you’re bluffing your way through a conversation instead of asking the question you’re too proud to say out loud.

And the flip side is also true: they notice when you’re being real.

When you say, “I don’t know, but I’ll find out.”
When you admit a mistake before anyone points it out.
When you give credit away freely and take the blame with grace.

That kind of honesty is magnetic. It builds trust faster than any presentation or title ever could.

The Best Leaders Don’t Take Themselves Too Seriously

I’ve never trusted leaders who can’t laugh at themselves. If you’re too busy maintaining your image to laugh at a bad call or a ridiculous moment, how are you supposed to create a culture of risk-taking and growth?

I’ve made plenty of mistakes: loud ones, expensive ones, embarrassing ones. But I also never tried to pretend otherwise.

Self-deprecation, when it’s sincere, can be the most humanizing form of strength. It tells your team: I’m not above you. I’m in this with you.

And when people feel that, they don’t just follow you, they build with you.

Curiosity Over Certainty

There’s a temptation, especially in leadership, to chase certainty. We want clear answers, clean strategies, guaranteed results.

But what I’ve learned is that curiosity is far more powerful than certainty.

Certainty closes the loop. Curiosity keeps it open.
Certainty says, “I’ve got this.” Curiosity says, “Let’s see what we can learn.”

When I lead from curiosity, when I’m okay with not knowing, with being the person in the room asking the so-called dumb question, I give permission for everyone else to show up with their own questions.

And that’s when real breakthroughs happen.

Drop the Act, Do the Work

There’s something deeply liberating about giving up the performance of having it all together. About trading the appearance of control for the practice of presence.

Being stupid is not about lowering your standards, it’s about lowering your defenses.
It’s about trusting that your value doesn’t come from having all the answers, but from creating space for truth to emerge.

So here’s what I try to remember, especially when I’m tempted to armor up and act like I’ve got it all figured out:

• Stay curious.
  
• Admit what you don’t know.
  
• Laugh at your mistakes.
  
• Give other people room to shine.
  

And above all: Be stupid. Stay honest.

It just might be the smartest thing you ever do.

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You ever watch one of those old cartoons where a character walks off a cliff, hangs in midair for a beat, and only falls once they realize there’s nothing beneath them? That’s what starting something new often feels like.

And honestly, I’ve learned to love it.

While co-founding SXSW, I’ve taken more than a few leaps that felt like cliff jumps, with no safety net and absolutely no guarantee we’d land on our feet. And we didn’t always. Sometimes we face-planted. Spectacularly.

But here’s the thing: those failures? They’re where all the good stories come from. They’re where you find out what you’re made of, what matters, and how to build something that actually lasts.

SXSW Was Built on Glorious Missteps

People see the SXSW of today and assume it was always this polished, globally recognized machine. But back in the early days, it was more like a band of rebels trying to throw a party we hoped people would show up for.

We made so many mistakes. Wrong speakers. Wrong rooms. Wrong assumptions. We’d book a panel that only two people would show up to, or overestimate interest and end up with a line around the block and no seats left.

There were moments I thought: “Well, this might be the year we crash and burn.” But every time we got something wrong, we learned something right.

And that’s the point: failure didn’t stop us, it shaped us.

Fear Is the Real Killer of Creativity

What keeps most people from doing the thing they dream about isn’t lack of talent. It’s fear.

Fear of looking stupid. Fear of not being taken seriously. Fear of trying and falling flat.

But if you’re building anything worthwhile, especially in creative industries you have to get comfortable with that fear. Better yet, you have to invite it in, offer it a drink, and then get to work anyway.

Failing doesn’t mean you’re wrong. It means you’re trying.

And I’d take a messy, heart-filled attempt over a perfect idea that never leaves the notebook any day.

You Can’t Innovate Without Falling Down First

Here’s something I’ve learned again and again: you can’t play it safe and build something new at the same time.

Whether it’s launching a new format, backing a weird idea, or trusting an unknown artist—you have to be willing to risk the flop.

Some of the biggest wins I’ve ever been part of started as “are-we-sure-this-isn’t-terrible?” conversations. That tension, that creative discomfort is the birthplace of originality.

And yeah, sometimes it doesn’t work. But the lessons you gain from trying and failing are the exact tools you’ll need to get it right the next time.

Laughing in the Wreckage

I’ve also learned not to take failure personally. Or too seriously.

If you’re going to fall on your face, do it with style. Laugh about it. Own it. Then get back up and go again.

Some of my favorite memories from the early years aren’t the successes, they’re the disasters that we turned into jokes and war stories. The time the sound system failed. The time the wrong bio got printed. The time someone asked us if this “little conference” was even worth attending.

The ability to find humor in those moments is what keeps you going.

Failure Bonds People

There’s a secret side effect to failing: it brings your team closer.

When things go wrong and they always will, it forces you to trust each other, communicate better, and solve problems together. You stop pretending to be perfect and start becoming real collaborators.

Some of the most loyal, talented people I’ve ever worked with are people I’ve shared failures with. We’ve been in the trenches together. And we came out the other side with grit, perspective, and a hell of a lot more respect for one another.

A Culture That Welcomes Flaws Lasts Longer

In hindsight, I’m proud that SXSW and other projects I’ve been part of didn’t start out polished. They were scrappy, flawed, and totally human. And that’s what gave them soul.

If you build something with the expectation of perfection, it will crack the first time real pressure hits. But if you build something knowing it will evolve, that you’ll learn as you go, you create something durable. Something with space for growth.

Failure builds resilience. It builds adaptability. It builds culture.

Jump Anyway

If you’re standing on the edge of your own cliff—thinking about launching something, saying something, creating something, let me say this:

You’re probably going to mess up.
It might get embarrassing.
You might fall a few times.

But you’ll survive it. And more than that, you’ll grow from it. You’ll gain clarity. You’ll find unexpected allies. And you’ll create something that matters, even if it’s a little dented around the edges.

“Cartoon deaths” and cliff jumps are part of the process. And the sooner you learn to fail with your whole heart, the faster you’ll discover what you’re really capable of.

So go ahead, take the leap.

The net doesn’t appear until after you jump.

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